Now What? Part II … Of Regret
You read your manual, right? Okay, but you’re going to, right? As discussed in Part I of how to get great photos from whatever camera you’re currently holding in your hand, reading the manual is crucial. You may not learn a lot about photography from the manual, but knowing what the buttons and dials do will go a long way in helping the end result. And the cheaper the camera, the more you need to know about its operation. Now that that’s out of the way, let’s proceed.
Sadly, I’ve had several regretful moments with my photography. Regret in the sense I didn’t take a picture of something that on hindsight was a monumental highlight either during a trip, or some event that would never be repeated. Such as, you ask? Such as the time I negotiated for 2 days with a carpet factory owner on the 6,000 year old Silk Road in Kashgar, China for a hand-tied silk rug, and left without a picture of the three of us – me, him, and the rug.
The rug now hangs in my study. It’s stunning; the back almost as beautiful as the front because of the tapestry effect created by all those tiny knots. I’ve got the receipt from the purchase. I’ve got the story of the owner inquiring of my hotel information from the tour guide my son and I were with that day and contacting me directly at the room (would NOT happen anywhere else in the world). And how my son and I negotiated like we’d done it a thousand times before. And how we had to accumulate enough cash for the purchase over a 3 day period and then used most of our U.S. dollars in the end because we ran out of time. And how we traveled to the factory that day with 6,300 Yuan on us, stuffed into every nook of our backpacks and clothing. And were 1,000 Yuan short and knew we’d have to negotiate like our lives depended on it, or head
to our next destination with all that cash. I have all that. But I don’t have a picture of kind, sweet “Andy” who hadn’t seen a tourist in months, whose family was depending on that sale from the Americans for sustenance, whose face indicated we’d reached his bottom-dollar when I told him all I had was 6,300 Yuan (at that point, I actually wished I had more to give him). I missed that opportunity. Maybe I was just so thrilled to be the owner of a future family heirloom with such a great story behind it. I’d told myself I’d be purchasing nothing, that the trip itself, with my beloved son, was enough. Maybe we were in a hurry to catch the train to our next destination since we’d checked out of our hotel. Maybe I was just relieved the exhilarating and exhausting process was over and that I had the rug and Andy had a sale. Maybe, maybe, maybe.
My advice in this post is simple: Don’t let regrets happen. Shoot a LOT. Don’t allow anyone to make you feel guilty or silly for taking a lot of pictures or for always having a camera on you. Those family gatherings where no one wants to pose for more than 1 second? Make them stand still for longer. This is not to say there are times when a camera is disrespectful or inappropriate, or downright not allowed. I’m not talking about those times. Trip that shutter a lot. If you do that, you’ll reduce the regrets, and guess what? Your photography will improve.



About SRT... I’m a traveler, writer and photographer for whom the open road frequently summons. Adventurous solo road trips are a staple for me, and a curiosity. So I created this website to share them and inspire you to step out and give them a try. Welcome! 

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As predicted, Part 2 did not disappoint. Yet more crucial expertise from your end. If I don’t take a shot that I capture with my eye, I think about it the rest of the day/trip/week, etc. It may be weird but I actually have “shots” stored in my memory bank that I didn’t actually “take.” It’s brilliant the way the mind works. It can be argued that that’s nice too – to have those kinds of shots, where you don ruin a special moment, and you keep it in your head forever, yada yada yada. Wish I had a photo though!
When we’re on road trips, Olivier is so good now — he can even sense when I feel like I missed something. To which he says casually, “I can turn around…”
Comment by Kerrin @ MyKugelhopf — July 31, 2009 @ 2:36 am
Yup. I think I know this advice but sometimes feel like I take too many pictures. But when I got home, I felt like I haven’t had any great pictures at all. I need to remind myself of your post!
Comment by Amy @ The Q Family — July 29, 2009 @ 10:44 pm
Love the story and the advice. As a kid, my Mom always complained about me wasting the film. I got away from taking a ton of pictures. When I was using my camera, I could waste as much film as I wanted – and I did. Now, thanks to digital – I can go completely crazy. Yes, I’m the pain in the neck aunt taking pictures of everything and when travelling, the more pictures the better.
Thank you for sharing.
Comment by Cindy — July 29, 2009 @ 6:25 pm
Eeeekkk!!!! What a BEAUTIFUL, STUNNING, GORGEOUS, SUBLIME tapestry that is. I mean, just hanging on you wall, I can already feel the history and beauty of it! I’m so jealous of your purchase. I am at a total loss of superlatives that can best describe how I feel about that rug! It’s so beautiful I want to cry. Seriously. Just thinking of the family who painstakingly worked on it for months – not so much a creative outlet, but as a traditional storytelling of their family’s social hierarchy – and that YOU have a part of them. Lovely!
Comment by jen laceda — July 28, 2009 @ 9:59 am
Love your photography advice! I solo road tripped the lower 48 and sometimes wish I had taken more photos…yet I’m thankful for the photos I do have. When I first started solo road tripping I wanted to enjoy the moment and not experience it thru a view finder. Now that I have more experience traveling I’ll shoot 300 photos in a day because I want to share the adventure with others. Thanks for sharing your experience and photos!
Comment by sue — July 27, 2009 @ 11:13 pm
Amen, sister! You’ll never have it if you don’t get it. Don’t ever forget the camera!!
Comment by Pops — July 27, 2009 @ 6:51 pm
Great story! Great advice! Beautiful rug and drop dead gorgeous walls!
Comment by Clay Mama — July 27, 2009 @ 5:03 pm
Confirmed. Both parts. Never ever ever back down from a shot…ever.
Comment by Lance — July 27, 2009 @ 12:18 pm